Nope, really sorry, this WAS a music video post.
The video jumped all over the place in my browser so I removed that by giving it zero dimensions. So far, so good.
This did have the unfortunate side effect of doing away with the control buttons and any ability to stop the music.
It's amazing how quickly you can begin to loathe a track after it's kicked in and repeated five or six times. I can't bear it any longer - whoosh, gone.
In it's place however, I can announce that my beloved other has posted his list of 8 traits of a perfect partner/lover, here.
See the comments there; I have adjusted my own list accordingly......