Why Years In A Bad Marriage Aren't Wasted

For Sassy

1. You learned to bite your tongue
2. You learned to take more shit than you ever thought possible
3. You found out you're really strong
4. You found out you're the kind to keep hoping
5. You found out you're a keeper - someone who keeps on hanging in there
6. You found out you are reliable no matter what
   
7. You found out you are trustworthy even when all hell lets loose
8. You lost a whole load of false ideas about what you want out of life
9. You found a whole new set of life goals
   
10. You learned to see trouble coming from a mile off
11. You learned to see a worried woman from a mile off, too
    
12. You learned new wanker people skills
13. You found out that all men are not born equal
14. You found your limits and how far is too far
    
15. Top reason - you have more clue now than before and those are the last years you'll spend on that lesson; its done, its learned and theres no taking you for a fool ever again.