So, did I mention Husband's teensy breakdown?
On the one hand he's done lots of CBT and thats fantastic. As he's relaxed he's become a lot more naturally considerate, kind, helpful. In some senses its been like a fairy tale.
On the other hand, having one's life partner at home, constantly, since September, briefly very very angry but then progressively finding ways to take control of his environment and be helpful (particularly when you're not actually there);
its like playing a sort of sadomasochistic blind-man's-buff against Dr Jekyll.
Nearly time out, I think.